Sunday, March 29, 2015

Black and White


 In this video Amnesia shows you what she wore in order to give one of her clients a boy-to-girl transformation on 3-22-15.

  



 music: Piano Ballad by iMovie



To see Amnesia's other outfits click HERE

  Lear more about the Boy-to-Girl makeovers click HERE

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

The Heart Does Go On.



As some of you may have heard, my father had a heart attack on Tuesday February 24th. The short version is that he is now recovering from a quadruple bypass procedure. All signs point to a speedy recovery and he should be leaving the Hospital this week.

Thank you for your kind messages during these very stressful times.

UPDATE March 5th, 2015:
Dad is leaving the hospital today!!!

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Dear Feminists Like YOU Men are Sick and Tired of These Gender Roles



I have a part time job where I temporarily transform men into women. It’s more than a job. It’s a mission. A mission to create a safe place where men are free to explore ALL aspects of their being. That includes exploring their feminine side and the role that they are forced, as men, to play in today’s society.

It never fails that my clients, or EXTENDED FAMILY as I like to think of them, confide in me and tell me their experiences when dating biological women. We talk about the thrills and the pitfalls of such.

Recently I had a very educated and stunningly beautiful client tell me how when she, presenting in her male form, is expected to behave and react to her biological female dates.

Shortly after our transformation session I received this message:

"Funny because I was thinking of you last night given our conversation on dating in NYC. True to our discussion, I ended up on a second date last night with a lady. It was your standard, totally boring date where the guy (that would be me) picks the place, only to have the lady show up in jeans and a frumpy, grumpy sweater...no makeup (!), not even blush or eyeliner. (Of course, Sheryl wouldn't be caught dead on a date without makeup, a dress and heels, but I digress.) I ended up laughing to myself after the date, because it was exactly what we talked about, where I felt like I had to bring all the action and planning and thinking and talking. I was even surprised when she asked when the third date would be -- am I a coupon for free dinner to be redeemed at any participating restaurant? ;) “

Feminists for the past 40-50 years have fought for equality, but doesn’t equality spill over to the dating scene? Shouldn’t a biological woman be an equal when it comes to dating? Shouldn’t she share in the responsibility of showing her “man” a good time? Or should today's man have to tell a lady that he would like to be wined and dined?

Sunday, January 18, 2015

Remembering 2014

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In late 2013 I decided I would vlog for the entire year of 2014. At first I vlogged every single day. Later in the year I started skipping some days. The year had it's challenges but it also brought with it some sweet times.

Here is the end of my 2014 in a two part ending like the Hunger Game movies. ha.

December Part I

(December Part I) My Tranny Life from Gender Fun on Vimeo.


December Part II

(December Part II) My Tranny Life from Gender Fun on Vimeo.


It was a pleasure to have shared pieces of my life with you. Here's to wishing you and your loved ones a prosperous 2015!

We have moved Jan - Nov 2014 volts to the archives.  Maybe one day they will resurface ;-)

Monday, December 8, 2014

Social Pressure to Adhere to Gender Roles

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This past Saturday I did a MTF Transformation on a new transgender client who is contemplating starting the male-to-female transition process (hormone treatment etc). She was so thrilled to see her femme self staring back at her in the mirror.

A great topic came up during our session, that of social pressure to adhere to ONLY ONE gender. I explained to her that growing up I was encouraged to adhere to the male gender, and now that I am public with my crossdressing, I am encouraged - by my many online admirers - to transition to being a full-time female. Ultimately I told her, you have to ignore the noise and listen to one's own internal voice. 

I'm happy living in that in-between gender space where I can go back and forth between the genders.  I explained to her that it took me a long time to become comfortable with my gender identity (gender nonconforming/gender fluid) so she (being 26 years old) ought not to pressure herself too much.

Things have a way of working out when you are kind to yourself and let yourself evolve naturally...to whatever gender/s you are ultimately meant to be.

Sunday, November 16, 2014

FEELING Like a WOMAN

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As you may know, I do male-to-female makeovers on the weekends. The other day I was asked this very interesting question

ASHLEY: What was the hardest mtf makeover u have ever done

AMNESIA: Hmmm define "hardest"

ASHLEY: Most trouble to make the most passable

AMNESIA: I've had a couple of girls that were difficult but not because they didn't look' "passable" but because they didn't take direction well. Looking and feeling feminine for the most part, believe it or not, comes from within. You have to "FEEL LIKE A WOMAN" in order for it to translate on the outside. Of course then the question is, "what does it feel like to be a woman?" The girls who take direction well from me can tell you. They feel the magic inside, and thus it transforms them on the outside. It's quite an amazing thing to witness in person. The energy of the room changes, and just like magic they come out looking very feminine in their photos.

To see some of the sexy girls I've transformed click HERE

Do you have any question? Leave them in the comments below.

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

How Would U React to a Catcall on the Street?

Have you seen this video of a young lady getting catcalls on the streets of NYC?



I remember getting catcalls - 0:47 mark in the below video for example. A guy behind me screams "LOOKING GOOD!"



I guess it's not just biological women getting catcalls

I simply reacted with a smile and "BAM!" Then I proceeded to tell a girl I loved her Christian Louboutin shoes. lol

How would you react to a catcall on the street?

Friday, October 24, 2014

What Does Being STRAIGHT Mean to You?



Recently I made a video where I answered the question "Do you get hit on by straight guys?" (click above video for answer)

Sexual orientation labels no longer mean the same as they did in the past. Back in the day I would hear the term "Straight," or "Gay" and I knew what the person was talking about. Now, when I hear the term "Straight" I need some clarification. Many Male-to-Female Cross-dressers SAY they are "STRAIGHT" but that word usually comes with a fine print.

When a MTF cross-dresser says they are "Straight" sometimes what they really mean is "I am attracted to humans that are FEMININE." Both men and women can be FEMININE so they are sexually aroused by either SEX so long as the sex they are attracted to presents themselves in a FEMININE way.

Take for example what a cross-dresser said on one of my youtube videos.

"I very much am (Straight) but also enjoy dressing up en-femme and going out in public and very much enjoy masturbating whilst looking at other TVs/CDs.....I've never had the chance but I wouldn't say no to a sexual experience with a guy that looked as good a woman as you do....in-fact I think being dressed and "69ing" with another TV/CD would be a real thrill - but oddly I couldn't even consider it if I was dressed normal drab and with another drab male....how screwed up am I???? No for me female's rock, even males dressed up as females...(but not males, or females dressed as males)....."

I can't tell you the number of times I've heard the above from many MANY cross-dressers. Not all cross-dressers would be into having a penis in their mouth or in their anus but for many of them this is a fantasy they'd like to have come true so long as the penis is attached to a FEMININE human.

It's not just cross-dressers whom consider themselves STRAIGHT, there are many burly masculine men who consider themselves STRAIGHT (and do not cross-dress) yet they'd love to have same-sex encounters with a MTF cross-dresser. Still they maintain that they are STRAIGHT!

So does the label STRAIGHT mean anything any more, especially when self identifying STRAIGHT men are having same-sex sexual encounters? I say YES. "STRAIGHT" as discussed here means, "I identify as a MALE who is sexually aroused by FEMININITY." Sure, it's not your TRADITIONAL STRAIGHT MALE but then again, these STRAIGHT guys never claimed to be TRADITIONAL...not that there is anything wrong with that.

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

My Wife Found My Crossdressing Pics, is My Life as I knew it Over?

Imagine you're a crossdresser and your wife is not aware that you dress like a woman and go out to bars for drinks with your crossdressing friends. Now imagine your wife accidentally finds pictures of you dressed as a woman on the home computer. She flips out! She feels betrayed and lied to.

Now imagine that cross-dressing friend confides in you, what would you say?

Would it go a little something like this?

CD: My wife saw photos (of me dressed as a woman) on my computer last night. I'm so scared now I will lose her.

FRIEND: Oh boy. Stay strong

CD: I feel sick. I can't believe I let this happen.

FRIEND: Breathe. It's going to be ok.

CD: I don't know that it will. She can't look at me she feels betrayed and questions who and what I am

FRIEND: That's expected at this stage. She needs time to process this new reality.

CD: I don't know that she will be able to process this.

FRIEND: She has to because it's reality. Let her be upset, and when she calms down you can have an eye opening conversation about this very important part of your life. Remember the marriage vows, for better or worse. These are the tough times that can make a marriage stronger. You have to guide her into this new future together.

CD: Or tear it apart. There is no future for this part of me of that I am sure

FRIEND: You have to focus on what you want and put your best foot forward. Now is not the time to think of a bad outcome.

CD: I need to make a choice and in my heart I have already made it. I have to bury this part of me or there will never be a chance of saving my marriage. If it's even salvageable.

FRIEND: Are you really going to suppress this for another 18 years AGAIN?

CD: If I have to make a choice yes I can.

FRIEND: There is nothing wrong with you. This is part of what makes you a complete individual

CD: The person I love the most in this world thinks there is something wrong with me

FRIEND: If you believe she is right then I suggest you two go to marriage counseling. The therapist will show her she is wrong. There is nothing wrong with you.

CD: It doesn't matter who's right

FRIEND: It does matter because otherwise one of you will be living in denial. I strongly suggest you both go see a therapist to smooth things out. Let me know if you need a referral.

CD: Thank you, I will let you know. But the only person she thinks needs a therapist is me.

FRIEND: That's a good starting point. After you go to a therapist for a couple of sessions the therapist will invite her to join so that she can better understand you.

What do you think this Crossdresser should do? Give up crossdressing in order to please the wife or should the Crossdresser do something else?

Friday, October 3, 2014

Inspirational Pics

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We simply LOVE THIS!

Lynn Jones, one of our fabulous GF readers, altered some of our photos. She writes:

Your post on 'get off the pot' reminded me of those spoof inspiration / Drunkspiration pictures that did the rounds. This is in a good way, I should add!! :-D Hell, if we can have motivational posters on getting tanked, why not in being fabulous? It's certainly better for your mood and your waistline. :-)

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