Monday, October 21, 2019

New Video

Look who FINALLY made a new video. lol

In the past month I've gotten emails from the sweetest folks.  Some folks who used to watch my videos on the Youtube Gender Fun channel back in 2009!!!!  Those kids are now all grown up.  It's amazing how fast ten years can go by.

Today as I was getting ready to do a MTF makeover I decided to prop up the iphone and shoot a few clips for my thousands of followers on Instagram and Facebook. God bless them.

I forgot how fun it was to talk to my peeps out there in the cyber world.

Hopefully I will find the time to shoot more videos in the near future so we can keep this Gender conversation going.  The world needs to talk about gender now more than ever.

Feel free to email us and let us know what topics you'd like discussed.

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Thank you so much for your ongoing support throughout the years.  
I hope life has been good to you.

Adrian L Acosta

Amnesia Sparkles

The latest Gender Fun:

Friday, October 11, 2019

Transition Update

January 13th, 2017 
Officially said good-by to my old self blog entry

June 2nd, 2017 
Came out to my BFF about my "transition" blog entry

May 16th, 2018 
Addressed whether I was taking hormones blog entry

February 26th, 2019 
Addressed the effects of hormones  blog entry. 

Now, here we are. 

Hi, how are you?

I'm writing this "transition" update because my social media presence has recently grown with followers on Instagram, Facebook, and Youtube in the thousands.  I want to answer questions regarding the changes I've undergone in the past few years.

You might be reading this and going through some form of transition yourself, from losing weight, starting a new job, having a child, or maybe you're contemplating going through some gender changes as well.  Let's hear it for embracing change.

Here are answers to the most popular questions I've recently received.

Do you present in full Femne every day?
I spend about 80% of the time wearing no makeup, my hair in a ponytail or a bun, and staying comfy in sweatpants and hoodies.
To see my 2019 full femme pics click HERE 
To see my 2019 not in Femme pics click HERE
Which restroom do you use?
I prefer to use gender neutral restrooms, however if one is not available I simply use the men's restroom.

What pronoun do you prefer?
Call me he, she, they, whichever.  
I do however prefer They/Them/Theirs. But I understand folks are not yet used to using those pronouns in casual conversation.

How have your friends, family, and coworkers been treating you?
Short answer: I've received full and complete support from the people in my life. I began growing out my hair, getting electrolysis treatments, and taking hormones without really discussing my gender identity with the folks in my life. I figured they would start noticing the changes as they happened. So in a way I believe my physical changes, as gradual as they have been, have helped their perception of me change with time. So in a way we've all been transitioning together, smoothly. I love them for that.

Facial hair before electrolysis.

How often do you get electrolysis? How many more treatments do you need?
I started electrolysis treatments in January 2017. I used to get 90 minute weekly treatments. Now with most of the hair killed off I get 60 minute treatments twice a month. I probably have another year before most of my facial hair is completely killed off.

What do you least like about transitioning?
Hands down electrolysis is the worst part of transitioning for me. It's painful and it takes time to kill off every single hair follicle

Have your breasts grown?
Yes. They are about a B cup now.

Are you planning on getting bottom surgery and/or getting implants?
No. That being said I am entertaining the thought of getting facial feminization surgery sometime in the next 10 years.

How do the hormones affect your libido?
Personally I don't think about sex as much as I used to. That could be because I'm now in my 40s. That being said, sex now feels so much better. In part because the hormones make certain parts of my body more sensitive and also because I'm more confident in my own skin.

Do you date straight guys?
Since 2015 I've only been dating self-identifying straight men. However, I'm open to dating other folks whether male, female or anyone in-between so long as they are my type.

What is your type?
I know it soon as I see someone. I tend to be attracted to folks who don't have traditional good looks. I like quirky esthetics on a person. Of course more importantly I'm attracted to high intelligence and a personality with a great sense of humor.

What do you like the most about transitioning?
I'm grateful for having life experiences, positive and negative, that have helped shape me into the person I am today and I feel excited as I get closer to becoming the person I feel I was meant to be, inside and out.

Friday, October 4, 2019

My Man Wants to Suck a Penis, Now what?

Ladies chances are your boyfriend wants to suck a penis. Trust me on this. That being said they most likely don’t want to suck a penis on someone that looks like a man. That’s because they are not sexually attracted to men. However, I bet they are curious about sucking a penis on someone that looks like a woman. That would be a transgender woman or a very feminine crossdresser.

Of course guys will be guys and they may not admit to it at least not to you, nor to their friends nor family but trust me ladies, your man has probably thought about sucking a penis. They might have even watched tranny porn, and liked it.

So, what do you do if your boyfriend or husband wants to suck a penis but you don’t have one, because you know, you were born with a vagina?

Here are a few suggestions:

1) Buy a strap-on and make him suck it while you wear it. Slap his face with it while you're at it.
2) Make friends with a trans woman or a Crossdresser and have a threesome.
3) Give him a hall pass so he can explore his sexuality with a trans woman or a Crossdresser

The key here is to have a dialogue out in the open. Because let’s face it, if their desire and curiosity is strong enough they will go about sucking a penis behind your back. Not because they don’t trust you, or love you but simply because they may be a bit ashamed of their desires. And they may not quite have the vocabulary to articulate why it is they have such a curiosity in the first place.

Traditionally speaking we tend to, as a society, accept that women experiment sexually during their collage years, but rarely do we hear guys talking openly about their sexual experimentation. You are fooling yourself if you think that guys don’t experiment or at the very least have a desire to explore their sexuality and fantasies.

Having your guy open up about this side of himself can bring you two closer so long as you listen with an open mind and you don’t judge him.

So ladies, grow a pair and show your man you care by asking him if they want to suck your dick. You might be pleasantly surprised with his response as he drops to his knees to worship you.