I'm 17, Male, and I Want to be a Pretty Girl

Today's viewer mail comes from a young lad that would really like to start dressing as a girl.

He writes:

I watch your vidoes all the time! Im only 17 but the girl inside of me is bursting to come out. I really need your help because right now im so bad at this and I so baldy want to be preety:)

Hi G,

Congrats on acknowledging your inner girl self at such a young age. Many men suppress their inner Girl Self for much of their adulthood never letting her out. You are light years ahead of the game.

Now you can start the process of figuring out how to incorporate your inner girl self into the real world. It's bringing fantasy into reality, it is making a dream come true. You are at the beginning of a fantastic journey.

The first step is to set a goal.

Being a girl is not cheap so you'll need money. Figure out a way to save money. This will be a "Girly Fund."

Due to your current circumstances you might not be able to dress up as a girl at the moment. But if you start saving money now you can use that money in the future to buy shoes, wigs, and lots of dresses.

Thanks for writing in.
-A

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We all have ideas trapped in our minds of what we want to do with our time. We have fantasies we'd love to bring to life. Many of us will sit on an idea and never bring it to life, not just because we fear not being able to achieve our dreams but because we don't set a goal and a plan of action in order to archiving them.

We get caught up in desperation and feeling helpless and hopeless. In the words of a wise woman, "Ain't nobody got time for that."

Step one to successful Crossdressing / Gender-bending

$$$ Start a Girly Fund $$$

Some Gays Are Ignorant, and that's Ok

For the past 10 years "The Gays" have been very vocal about wanting the right to get married. They have reminded Gay Youth that "It Get's Better." The fight for equality has not been an easy one. There have been many casualties along the way. Egos have been bruised and countless lives have been lost.

You would think that with the fight for equality their would be more educating the masses on what being Gay is all about, showcasing the similarities between the Gay and Straight human experience yet the divide seems to be getting wider. Both parties, Gay and Straight, seem unwilling to see the gray area of the sexual orientation scale.

Not everything is black or white.

There's a difference when discussing Homosexuality as an "Act" vs Homosexuality as an "Identity." It has been my experience that many gay men I've talked to don't seem to really understand men who enjoy dressing like women that also enjoy having sex with men, women and transgender individuals.

Many gay men feel like there is only two ways of being, Gay or Straight. They ignore or simply reject the notion that anyone can be somewhere in the middle. How could someone enjoy penises AND vaginas?

If you follow this blog you know that on the weekends I do boy-to-girl transformations on clients. I give men makeovers where I turn them into women. All of the men I've transformed enjoy having sex with women very much. Some have had sex with trans women as well as men. They are not bound by sexual labels.

I can't tell you the numerous times I get asked by gay men if my clients are gay.

Gay Guy: So was your client gay?
Me: You mean does he identify as a gay man or has he had gay experiences?
Gay Guy: What's the difference?
Me: Well, you can have gay experiences and not consider yourself "Gay."
Gay Guy: Do they have sex with women too?
Me: Yes.
Gay Guy: So their bi?
Me: To the outside world they are bi but most gender-benders I've met don't care to label their sexual orientation. They are very open and attracted to men, women, and pre and post-op trans individuals.
Gay Guy: That's weird. Whatever, they are so totally GAY.

I've encountered this level of ignorance from gay people time and time again. For a group of individuals that is fighting for equality and understanding "The Gays" don't seem to think outside the box. They don't seem to extend the understanding, acceptance, and respect they very much desire from society.

Just think how much more persuasive the Gay Liberation movement would be if they lead by example.

It's ok "Gays," it gets better.

How Narcissistic Are You?

How narcissistic would you say you are from a scale of 1 to 10? Do you like the skin you are in? Do you love your God-given body?

I don't mean to pick on anyone, but have you seen the People of Walmart? I know that we all take different roads in life, some roads are rougher than others. Some roads take a toll on a person's body and overall image. We can't all walk around looking like supermodels, true. What is also true is that, as the good book says, your body is a temple and you should treat it as such.

If you follow this blog you know that on the weekends I do boy-to-girl transformations on clients. I've had a couple of clients who have mentioned that they feel narcissistic because they love the girl in the mirror that looks back at them. I don't see it as narcissism at all.

Society has embedded in their minds that a man should not dress as a women. Societal man shamming. For a man to look in the mirror and love the girlie image that is reflected back is NOT narcissistic but instead it is positive self-esteem reinforcement which can destroy the shame that society tried to put on them.  To look in the mirror and find a femme-self looking back is empowering.  It's the equivalent to saying "This is my life and I will live it the way I please."

The gender-bender, the cross-dresser, the drag queen, know who is inside the body of the girl in the mirror. The euphoria and admiration they feel when they see the image staring back at them is not narcissism but love, freedom, and courage for allowing themselves to dress their bodies in the image they've kept inside for so long.

Your body is a temple, and you are free to adorn it and adore it as you wish for as long as you have it.

We Wear Short Shorts

In this photo Amnesia shows you her new fun jean shorts and red kimono sleeve red top which she wore when she gave one of her clients a boy-to-girl transformation on 5-18-13.


Red Leather Heels with Zipper from Victoria's Secret

Jean Shorts Frederick's of Hollywood

Kimono Sleeve Red top from Venus.com

Wig from Jessica Simpson

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Lady in Red

 

 Red Peplum Surplice Dress: Size 16

Here is the latest purchase we made for our Lady Closet. This will be too big for me but I'm sure it will be just the right size for a future client. You simply can't go wrong with this style and this color.

Dress from Torrid.com


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Spring Look part II

In this photo Amnesia shows you her new fun Spring dress which she wore when she gave one of her clients a boy-to-girl transformation on 5-04-13.

NUDE PATENT LETHER HEELS from Lulus.com

OPEN SLEEVE DRESS from Venus.com

To see more items in our LADY CLOSET click HERE

To learn more about the BOY-to-GIRL TRANSFORMATIONS click HERE

Here's the makeup we used on eyes and lips.

Sugarpill eyelashes: Saint.

Mattese Elite eyeshadow: Star Dust.

Mattese Elite eyeliner: Onyx.

Ben Nye liquid eyeliner: Black

Mac lipstick: Blankety.

We also have the same open sleeve dress in teal which we wore on 4-29-13. Details click HERE.

Which one do you like best, teal or nude?

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New Fun Wild Shoes

Rainbow Ombre Leopard Platform Heel Size 12

Say hello to our latest shoe purchase! We had to get these wild heels since they were only $23.70!!! Now that's a bargain!

Shoes from Torrid.com

I think these shoes will go perfectly with the fun dress we got last year from Lulus.com

Jessica Who on TV

Did you hear the exciting news? The very talented funny and sweet gender bending performer Jessica Who was on TV recently!!!

To see Jessica on VH1's "I'm Married to A..." 
click HERE

We are so proud of her sharing her story with the masses. It takes a lot of guts to do what she did. In her honor today we celebrate Jessica by going down memory lane to the time Jessica and Amnesia collaborated on a series of videos. We had a blast that day!

Click on links to see videos


1 - 5 Tips 4 TEEN GURLS! 

2 - Movie Trailers - 5 Things I Love and Hate 

3 - Occupy Trans Street 

4 - Jessica Who - The X Factor Singing and Dancing Audition 

5 - Dude Looks Like a Lady 

6 - Amnesia Interviews Vicki (Part I) 

7 - Amnesia Interviews Vicki (Part II)

Congrats Jessica, You are a class act.

Stop by Jessica's channel and say Hi

Jessica Who's Channel
youtube.com/jessicawhohd

Spring Look

In this photo Amnesia shows you her new fun Spring dress which she wore when she gave her new client a boy-to-girl transformation on 4-29-13.


PINK PATENT LETHER HEELS from Fredericks.com

OPEN SLEEVE DRESS from Venus.com

WIG detail click HERE

To see more items in our LADY CLOSET click HERE

To learn more about the BOY-to-GIRL TRANSFORMATIONS click HERE

Here's the makeup Amnesia used on her eyes and lips.

Sugarpill eyeshadow: Midori, Tako, Darling.
Sugarpill eyelashes: Saint.
Mattese Elite eyeshadow: Star Dust, Space.
Mac lipstick: Saint Germain, Divine Choice.

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Spring Shopping

Today we did a little Spring shopping and we got some bargains. Some items were %50-%65 off. Here are some items we got for our Lady Closet.

Skirt

Shorts

Jeans

All items from Fredericks.com

To see more items in our LADY CLOSET click HERE