COVID, Kids on HRT, BLM, and the Men I've Slept With
Every now and then, Michael (one of my followers on Instagram) will message me and hit me with the tough questions. He first messaged me in December of 2018 and boy has the world changed since then, for all of us.
In this conversation he asks me about my feelings on parents putting their kids on hormone treatment, if I support the Black Lives Matter movement, if and when I'll be doing more youtube videos and MTF makeovers, how to kill COVID, and of course what type of men I've slept with.
October 15, 2020 6:13pm
ADRIAN: So far so good. How about you?
MICHAEL: I'm good. I can't complain been a wild year lol but I'm happy to have slowed down tbh when's your next YouTube video?
ADRIAN: slowing down can be a great thing. I don't know when I'll be filming a new youtube video. although I did put together a new outfit yesterday that I love and will want to show off soon
MICHAEL: I can't wait to see it. how have you been spending your days?
ADRIAN: I've been working a lot
MICHAEL: I hear ya. that's good. an idle mind is the devil's playground. so I'm glad you're staying busy. Will you be voting ?
ADRIAN: Oh yeah, early voting on the 24th.
MICHAEL: that's awesome. good for you! do you prefer to be called handsome or pretty?
ADRIAN: I rather be called smart 😜
MICHAEL: lol. I don't think you're smart though I think you're brilliant.
ADRIAN: 🤣 let’s not go too far, I don’t work for NASA
MICHAEL: there are different forms of brilliance. for instance, Chris rock is not formally educated but he's a brilliant comedian. he's a comedic genius. you should do stand-up. you ever heard of Flame Monroe?
ADRIAN: I rather not do stand-up because I’m funnier sitting down 😜
MICHAEL: ok well Cosby did stand up sitting down lol. he also was the world's worst bartender
ADRIAN: So true
MICHAEL: sorry if I annoy you
ADRIAN: Not at all
MICHAEL: you think I'm charming ? lol
MICHAEL: lmfaooooo ouch lol
ADRIAN: I don’t entertain when someone fishes for complements. It’s not my style. I see fishing for complements as a sign of insecurities
MICHAEL: I hear ya. and yeah I would agree with you. complements are a good thing. when are you doing makeovers again?
ADRIAN: I’ll know soon as most people get the vaccine. Probably end of 2021 or sometime in 2022
MICHAEL: most ppl won't get the vaccine lol but oh ok sorry if that question annoyed you
ADRIAN: Not annoyed at all. Second time you think I’m annoyed. Have people in the past told you that you were annoying? You’re not to me
MICHAEL: no, you prob get that question a lot from people that's why I asked. I know if I'm asked the same thing over and over I get annoyed. and no ppl in the past have not called me annoying. I was just trying to be considerate. that's all. we're all human.
ADRIAN: Oh ok. I guess I don’t get annoyed at the same things as you
MICHAEL: I'm not easily annoyed. I just don't like answering the same question over and over and over again but yeah I really admire you though. you exercise great courage. you're just determined to be who she is
ADRIAN: thanks. I don’t see any other way
MICHAEL: I mean that's rare in society. ppl want other people's approval. have you learned anything about yourself during quarantine?
ADRIAN: Sooooooo much. You?
MICHAEL: yes absolutely. I'm going to def live my life differently. carpe diem. I have a question for you. how do you feel about parents putting children on HRT
ADRIAN: I feel extremely lucky that I have yet to this day (I’m 41) seen myself in that position since I have zero desire to raise children. It is completely not a tough decision that I have to make or not make.
MICHAEL: ok I didn't ask if you'd do it. I asked how you felt about it. would you advocate it as some one who supports trans rights
ADRIAN: I would be a hypocrite to either be for or against it. I’m not in the arena parents are in
MICHAEL: how so?
ADRIAN: It’s not my place
MICHAEL: do you agree with having kids on HRT. remove the parent word lol
ADRIAN: lol I have no opinion on the matter because it’s not my place. Other than to say it has to be a tough decision for any parent
MICHAEL: you're an advocate of trans rights
ADRIAN: And I know my place
MICHAEL: I'm close to this situation. you support black lives matter?
ADRIAN: Lol That’s a jump in topic
MICHAEL: you support black lives matter?
ADRIAN: What does “support” mean to you?
MICHAEL: really? the same thing it means to you
ADRIAN: You want me to give you examples of the actions I’ve taken to support BLM?
MICHAEL: no. I just asked if you support blm? do you think it's good. do you support the movement ? Or better yet do you think it's a good movement?
ADRIAN: How can it be bad?
MICHAEL: are you black?
MICHAEL: technically it's not your place
ADRIAN: Exactly. So why ask me?
MICHAEL: because you're in the trans community and I asked you about a big topic in the community. I asked because I'm in the health care field and I've been asked to prescribe hormones to trans patients
ADRIAN: That’s a tough position to be in
MICHAEL: who me?
ADRIAN: Yeah you
MICHAEL: yes. I'm asking someone who is in the community what they think
ADRIAN: I think you need to make the best call possible which you can live with yourself in the end
MICHAEL: I will do that regardless. I'm just curious of your opinion. what would you do?
ADRIAN: If I were you I would ask other healthcare professionals to point you to scientific and psychological studies on the matter.
MICHAEL: I have all of that down and I made my decision. I knew my decision 2 seconds after I was asked. I just would like to know what would you do as someone in that community. I have great respect for your take since you're in that community
ADRIAN: Thanks. And thanks for asking
MICHAEL: so I get no answer lol
ADRIAN: Ha. I already answered the question
MICHAEL: I must've missed that
ADRIAN: It’s in text form. Scroll up to see it
MICHAEL: you said you have no opinion it's not your place
MICHAEL: you had an opinion on blm. that's not your place lol
ADRIAN: What was my opinion on blm?
MICHAEL: you said how can it be bad?
ADRIAN: That’s a question not an opinion
MICHAEL: that's an opinion in disguise
ADRIAN: If you want to see it that way. I stopped giving my opinion on black issues years ago
MICHAEL: why is that ?
ADRIAN: My black friends didn’t receive my opinion well lol
MICHAEL: maybe I will. try me
ADRIAN: You can ask them lol
MICHAEL: I don't know them
ADRIAN: My lips are 🤐
MICHAEL: what's the worst that could happen?
ADRIAN: Great question. You got all the hard hitting questions tonight is this CNN?
MICHAEL: no. it's not jeopardy either
ADRIAN: What is BLM?
MICHAEL: black lives matter
ADRIAN: See, the answer in the form of a question (like on jeopardy)
MICHAEL: what is black lives matter?
MICHAEL: lmfao. very clever
ADRIAN: Play ball. Jackie Robinson
MICHAEL: he was a great man Rip
ADRIAN: Yes. Good looking guy too. I’d let him get to second base with me
MICHAEL: so you like black men? Lol the brothas
ADRIAN: My bedroom is like the United Nations baby. Yes I’ve been with black and am currently with Asian
MICHAEL: that's nice. good for you
ADRIAN: Just showing my “support” 😜
MICHAEL: very nice. any latinos? Or Caucasian ?
ADRIAN: I’ve donated to the NAACP. And have sexually pleased black men, can I get a medal already? Yes Latinos, whites, Indians
ADRIAN: Checked all the boxes. Still need an Eskimo and a Native American for the whole set
ADRIAN: From Pakistan. A few
MICHAEL: Pakistan is not an arab nation
ADRIAN: Close enough
MICHAEL: they tie into Indian
ADRIAN: There was a brown guy I don’t know where he was from. I hit it and quit it. he may have been Arab
MICHAEL: hit it and quit it? lol wow
ADRIAN: Didn’t want him around after so I didn’t ask where he was from
MICHAEL: he wasn't nice?
ADRIAN: He needed a shower. Good looking guy too. Shame
MICHAEL: he smelled?
ADRIAN: Yep. BO
ADRIAN: Poor guy driving a car all day. Not his fault though
MICHAEL: what's wrong with driving a car all day? uber is a big deal now
ADRIAN: No showers in cars
MICHAEL: I've only been with black, Latina, and Asian. and yeah but there's deodorant at every store on every corner
ADRIAN: He was young. I’m sure he was too horny to stop and freshen up. I remember his eyes he looked at me like he hit the jackpot
MICHAEL: nah I always brush my teeth and shower before the deed and I see.
ADRIAN: Good for you. You must have gone to medical school
MICHAEL: that's what my med degree says. it's not a big deal though
ADRIAN: It is since washing can kill Covid
MICHAEL: lol. so over 200,000 Americans just simply didn't wash? washing. my, what a concept !
ADRIAN: Remember early March when people were learning that they had to wash their hands for 20 seconds? So many people didn’t know this. The other day I’m in the restroom and this guy walks out without washing his hands. Oy
MICHAEL: ppl still don't know how to wear their masks
MICHAEL: that's disgusting
ADRIAN: Men, Am I right?
MICHAEL: I'm not like most men
ADRIAN: Clearly. You ask tough questions. Well, I’d love to stay but I must run sir. Have a great night. Wash your hands 😜✌️
MICHAEL: we'll finish this some other time ma'am I will. and please wash yours too. the life you save might be mine